Is a Young Marry a Problem?

Most of the people in this world have known about love. In Indonesia, the teenagers from high school level have a couple even they only like to love or truly love. But not less of them get marry before their time, that’s called young marriage. Young marriage is a marriage that committed by a young couple. It’s caused by many factors, for example the teenagers who want to get merry impatiently, an accident, and many others. The survey says that most of young marriages happen at isolated villages which the people have Low Educations and mull the future less. Most of them just graduated from elementary school or junior high school level.

Young marriages have many flaws, moreover the couple who are not ready yet to have a household. Because many of them don’t have any jobs yet to get basic necessities of life. The jobs are really necessary. If they don’t get a job, they can’t give money, and their household will be broken even they will be divorce, moreover if they have a child. From where this child gets the better future if his or her parents can’t’ give the best to him or her?  So the parents doing are very influenced to their children growth. If they can’t educate and give their children good parenting, the risks will be horrifying. All of the children will be a bad people.

The criminal case usually happen caused by people who can’t give money to their family. Many of them are the young couple who don’t have a job yet. So, for giving basic necessities.  they usually through the wrong ways. They steal, doing bad to get something they want. They use their own potentials unwisely.  They have strong body, they have smart think, but they use them in wrong way. It’s a disgraceful incident in our life.

Talking about disgraceful thing. Many young couples have married because of accident. So, it makes their parents disappointed, and not less of them, don’t admit their baby. Because they don’t want their baby become a disgrace of their family. The word accident is taken from the incident called pregnant without daddy. The woman who get this incident usually through the wrong way by abortion (kill the baby before the baby get born). Whereas this way can kill herself. But only to cover up her disgrace, anything she does.

HIV/AIDS can spread to a couple who one of them have bad habit. Like free sex, or the woman who has spread before, perhaps caused of her bad habits. The main problem is how about their children? Of course it can spread to the baby too and make the baby suffer a long his or her life. What a big sins to the couple?

From that reasons, why the young marriage have many flaws. It can be avoided by save the relationship when still steady or try to be patient to get job and enough income before marry although still have a student status. Those suggestions can help to prepare the future to be success household and happy family, of course have a certain quality of generations. (Wise)

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